"People always say it's not the same after marriage." That puzzled me when i was unattached. But when I'm in their shoes, it still makes me guessing...
Whenever I said about property or holiday destinations, you'll keep quiet. I've been hoping so much for a time off, just the two of us. Facing those little ruckus has been so dreadful. We still have a long destination to go, yet ...
Let me know what's in your mind. Don't give me THE black face whenever you're not feeling good. It hurts me badly. And that's how I treated you back, to let you know what i felt. I know it's not right, but...
You know I always keep things to my heart, yet you didn't guide me to let it go. Why people change so drastically? Why a piece of paper can bring such big difference to couples? How are we going to go through the tens, hundreds, thousands, millions etc of years together?
environment changes ppl....i guess you two have not been talking heart to heart long long ago?
ReplyDeletehope and wish that everything still fine...dun give up, fren
add oil gal..
ReplyDeletesit down and hav a deep talk btw u and him.. the problem will be unsolved if both of u keep ur own feeling in ur own heart.. a pair of couple especially husband and wife, communication is so so important to bring us towards hapiness..
marriage is really a gamble.. i also how would i be after i sign the piece of "paper"..
hope he can see this comment too..
if u think marriage is just a piece of paper signed by two people, then thats what it is.
ReplyDeletePaper lacks passion or care.
Love needs patience and not black eye for black eye. It brings the marriage to its knees.
marriage needs patience, and if u think about property or holiday, put forward as a constructive suggestion, instead of putting it as a demand.
Men are creatures who dont know how to express themselves. Apart from work, their partner is the one they interact with the most in a day. Do not be put off by a black face. A cup of warm tea on the table says more than 2 lines of words. It takes patience to show love, not just demanding things. dont comment too much when a men sits beside you, they know their problem, if they tell you, they just want you to listen, not to solve it for them (they are ego creatures as well, they have the solution) they just need a listener.
Leave school things/conflict/unhappiness at school.
Home is a nest you come back for, not a nest for you to bring rubbish home.
Patience. Love is not a piece of paper. Its a vow, kept holy and sanctified by 2 souls.